The Decision to become parents

If there is an error in judgment, a lapse of faith, that makes you into parents then you will need to drastically rethink your position in life and take on a less selfish mindset. This means that you will need to prioritize and your conversations will soon be focused on diapers, poo, pee-pee, meals, sleep…

But if you go into the role of parenthood with the spirit of the lord in your heart you will be doing it the way it is supposed to be done.

We become tried with everything that involves our children, becomes the center of all our joys and sorrows… And we intend to make us understand… And then let go the typical sentence: “when you have children, I understand”. And Yes, sorry, but it is pure reality…

Know it because to my ever happened, I thought that they were heavy ones, that being a mother is nice but that would not be so, that being responsible for a life that gives you unconditional love would be okay, but if not I would like to have children you would not be less person nor to feel less full…

But, now I understand all of this…

And at the same time, I understand how heavy that we get when we are parents. Then we start to say phrases that can feel wrong, but we do not realize:

-“Do you think you are [whatever]? Because imagine if you had children!”

parents remove importance to the concerns of those who are not based on comparing them with what happens to us. “What do you say, that this week you’ve worked 50 hours? “Then imagine doing that and also with children!” do that you hurt feet all day working on the street? I’ve been all day running behind my son, blah blah blah, do not tell me rolls!”

It is not a competition. THAT DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOUR FRIEND IS ALSO EXHAUSTED.

-“My life didn’t make sense before they were born (my children)” or “life without children has no meaning”.

I understand the feeling. It sometimes gives the impression that all the concerns that had before come my daughter were trivial. I understand the impulse to put that thought into words. It is possible that your life today has a different purpose, but your previous life is an important part of your story, and your childless friends form an important part of it. Despise not that part of your life like most people skip pages of a novel reading listlessly. ..

Total when you realize that you’re heavy, you stop spending time with those who don’t have children because you think that you can bore you… And you end up by separate yourself a few years… until they decide to have children or your loved ones are not that so funny baby but rather it is the teenager who asks for money for all… But then there are friends… Because they are.

There are also those who despite your heavy follow by your side always…

Sean ones or are other important thing is that are.

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